A woman wants proud children.

Whether or not a woman is conscious of it or not, her biological motive will be on bearing a child, her sexuality will be based on reproduction.

Her view towards romance will be less on friendship and more centered on judging a man’s seed.

Why?

Because sex is about reproduction whether we want to admit to it or not.

Women see men in two groups of potential seed bearers.

There are two kinds of men, Jellies and Backbones.

When a Jelly approaches a woman, he will take the shape of her; Bending himself into an imitation of what he thinks will increase his chance of reproduction. The woman will see his uncertainty of self and view him as a means to an end. Not her first choice but a resource opportunity.

When a Backbone approaches a woman, he will shape her into his form. He will defend his self from external change and lead her into the form that he decides. This type of man is most valued as seed bearer since a woman wants to give birth to a proud Backbone.

The Jelly lives in fear and surrenders his form at the first sign of conflict which leaves the woman exposed to the confrontation. In time past, this would mean death or rape. The Jelly would shrink in fear while other Backbones mated with his woman. He would rather preserve his life than his dignity.

The Backbone lives with courage and fights to defend his form in conflict. He stands proud and stands his ground. This allows a woman to hide behind him while he protects her life and dignity. She knows that he would rather die than be humiliated.

Many, if not most men are Jellies. They see reality like beggars. They beg for scraps only because they fear asking for more. This poverty mindset was transferred from one generation to the next. These Jelly men look for desperate women who cannot find Backbones.

SEX IS ABOUT INSEMINATION.

A woman’s subconscious will tell her to avoid breeding with a Jelly because she will be burdened with not only weak genetic material but will be burdened with defending herself and the child alone.

How can a man be a Backbone?

First he should take care of his literal backbone. He should stand up straight with his shoulders back and project pride. This pride projection will prevent him from being exploited and will showcase his certainty of self. Two important factors in attracting a woman for reproduction.

Next he should take defending his dignity seriously. When others try to humiliate him, he remains calm and defiant. He does not let others walk over him like a Jelly, he makes them walk around him. His mind is independent of the need for constant emotional validation. When others disagree with him, he doesn’t let it crush his spirit or bend his form easily.

When a man takes pride in being a strong Backbone type, he’ll notice women giving him more attention for breeding purposes. They will fantasize about caring a healthy Backbone in their womb.

THAT IS ROMANCE.

Courage and pride are essential aspects to masculine frame. Without courage a man cannot lead himself or others to victory. Without pride a man encourages others to disrespect him.

Masculine frame is about dignity. A man should increase his dignity everyday that he is able to breathe. Without dignity, a man suffers a life worst than death. A cowardice spirit is not a spirit of life. That is a key reason that a woman would not want to impregnate herself with that type of spirit. She does not want to propagate cowardice because cowardice will not help her to the end. Life is hard and that is why women seek hard Backbones.

But just as literal Backbones bend, a man must bend his spirit with charisma to protect his dignity. A rigid backbone signals lack of social intelligence and possible poor health. That is why it is crucial for a man to defend his honor, but in a honorable way just as Hemingway once said “Courage is grace under pressure.”

When a man starts taking his pride seriously is when women will start taking him seriously.

Stand tall and proud. It will be the beginning of something grand. ― Theodore Roosevelt- “Believe you can and you're halfway there.” Do not shrink in fear or bend yourself unthinkingly to the whims of those that want to control you. Women will notice your strong Backbone and will reward your courage.

Pick up, carry and pass frame.