Fucking calms her.

“Lovemaking” is when a man drags emotion into sex.

“But JERR” a voice calls out from off the page “Isn’t emotional sex good for securing a connection with a woman?”

No.

“Lovemaking” is how an unframed man attempts to please a woman by listening and following her erotic directions.

If a woman says that “ABC” turns her on and a man follows her instruction from going to A-B-C he falls into her frame of authority and lifts her as director of the sex act.

What a unframed “nice” guy needs to understand is that a woman is aroused by a man’s independent authority. A woman orgasms by being dominated. If a man faithfully follows her orders of how to please her, he becomes submissive to her dominance.

If a woman was to say “I’m turned on by ABC”, a framed man would give her “DEF” with a little “C”

The key to pleasing a woman is to focus on your own selfish pleasure. Fuck her because it pleases you. When she tries to direct sex, ignore her and do as you want. She will become aroused by being dismissed. This will reassure her that her man has a mind of his own with the balls to pursue his own pleasure regardless of her wants.

“But JERR” a voice calls out from off the page “If a man is selfish and doesn’t try to please his woman, then wouldn’t she cheat on him?”

A woman cheats on weakness, not selfishness. Framed men from the dawn of time focused purely on their pleasure and their women would be emotionally split between indignation and sexual arousal. That is the sweet spot for a woman. She wants to be ignored, dismissed and fucked. She is merely a follower to a framed man’s desire. She wants to surf on the pleasure of a man’s eroticism without taking responsibility of the indecency.

For a man to understand female sexuality, he needs to understand female nature.

A woman hates responsibility, wants to projects purity for social acceptance and orgasms by being dominated.

Let us go through each one.

When a man brings his own erotic imagination to sex and tells a woman to do as he desires, she blames him for the indecency which is an accountability shrug to preserve her “virtue” , if she gets pleasure then she doesn’t have to feel perverted because she can blame the man for being perverted no matter what. Her morality projection remains safe if she is following orders.

Women want dirty sex without being the one who is responsible for the perversion.

Next a woman is sexually stimulated by being dominated. This sexual domination makes her feel vulnerable and that vulnerable, small state is what makes a woman feel feminine. By being dominated by a masculine man, a woman feels stimulated by the strong frame taking control over her pleasure. “I want ABC” she moans out while her man does “XYZ” , she moans harder.

Ignore her.

Dismiss her.

Fuck her.

A man’s pleasure is all there is.

“Sex is a part of nature. I go along with nature” Said Marilyn Monroe. She knew that true sexual pleasure came from a passive feminine approach to a man’s desire.

Men are expected to perform but we are no mere actors to a woman’s direction. We direct and act our own production. Everything about the sex act is thought and acted out from our own desire. We are not puppets to emotional manipulation. Remember that a shit test is a test to see if a man is easily controlled.

“Do as I say puppet” She will attempt and a man ignores her which passes her shit test.

He fucks her the way he wants and this reassures her that he truly is a leader by following his own direction.

A director tells others how to perform. The woman is a mere actress in the sex act. Direct her, control her and dominate her.

And in the end she will have thought she wanted “ABC” but will ultimately love “XYZ”

Why?

Because a woman should never get what she wants and that denial is what lifts up a man in her imagination.

Fuck her into calm submission.

Pick up, carry and pass frame.